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Non-monogamy is not for everyone, but maybe you are curious about it. Could it be right for you? How do non-monogamous couples deal with jealousy? I was curious myself, and the more I asked, the more I became surprised by this unexplored topic.
In Polycurious I have casual and intimate conversations with non-monogamous couples, sex and relationship experts, friends, and even people who tried polyamory and realized it wasn’t for them. This podcast is for the polycurious, whether you have explored non-monogamy or not.

Words from our listeners

Words from our listeners 〰

  • Just so freaking good!

    We’re early on our journey and it has been so helpful to hear other peoples stories told in such an authentic way. When we opened this Pandora’s box we didn’t really know what we were getting into. Something we realized through listening to this podcast is that there are so many ways to approach polyamory. Some that untangle a thread we want to pull on, others were just not interested in exploring. Without the stories that Fer and the guest so bravely share, we’d step into uncharted territory without a map. So grateful I found it and recommend it to anybody who is even thinking about exploring the space or just interested in learning about how these stories can help them understand their broader relationships.

  • Such a great listen!

    I am so glad I found this podcast! I am on a polycurious journey, so I always love to learn more about how others’ relationships are structured. The host does a great job at having diverse guests on, who each have their own unique experience in the community. I appreciate how it is a mix of personal guests as well as those working professionally in the space. Everyone is so open, vulnerable, and honest- it’s an honor to be let in on their own explorative journeys! I eagerly await for each new episode to be released. Thank you to Fer for evoking such interesting, passionate, and enlightening conversations! <3

  • Exploring Polycuriousity

    Fascinating for anyone who is interested in the ins and outs of non-monogamous relationships. Fernanda leads very thoughtful conversations with many different people and couples who all have a wide range of experiences. Interesting to learn from others and hear about their triumphs and challenges, what worked and what didn’t. Lots of great resources referenced as well. Enjoyed it! Can’t wait for the next season.

  • An amazing source to anyone considering non-monogamy

    This show is one of the most honest windows into the lives and tribulations of real people navigating the world of polyamory and non-monogamy. I’d highly recommend this podcast to anyone considering exploring these types of relationships.

  • For polycurious, or even not!

    I loved hearing the adventures of different poly peoples’ relationships. I love how they highlight not only the joys, and don’t outright promote it for everyone, but talk about the things that work and don’t work. Fernanda is a phenomenal host and I really hope they continue with another season!

EPISODES

EPISODES

Can Non-monogamy Make you a Better Parent?

Getting Comfortable with MMF Threesomes

Metamours Who Are Friends

Intimacy and Psychedelics

Can Non-monogamy Make you a Better Parent? 〰 Getting Comfortable with MMF Threesomes 〰 Metamours Who Are Friends 〰 Intimacy and Psychedelics

EP. 53 How to Fortify Your Relationship with Lamees & Nick

EP. 53 How to Fortify Your Relationship with Lamees & Nick

EP. 52 How to Find Safety with Luna & Leo

EP. 52 How to Find Safety with Luna & Leo

EP. 51 Hotwife, Mono-Poly or Something Else? with Ellie & Cole

EP. 51 Hotwife, Mono-Poly or Something Else? with Ellie & Cole

EP. 50 Mono-Poly and Non-hierarchical with Shy & Gabrielle

EP. 50 Mono-Poly and Non-hierarchical with Shy & Gabrielle

EP. 49 When You're Non-Monogamous and Your Partner Isn't with Cassie & Schuyler

EP. 49 When You're Non-Monogamous and Your Partner Isn't with Cassie & Schuyler

EP. 48 Don't Ask Don't Tell But Different with Fer & Seth

EP. 48 Don't Ask Don't Tell But Different with Fer & Seth

EP. 47 How to Deal with New Relationship Energy (NRE) with Fernanda

EP. 47 How to Deal with New Relationship Energy (NRE) with Fernanda

EP. 46 More Than A Mother with Molly Roden Winter

EP. 46 More Than A Mother with Molly Roden Winter

EP. 45 Poly and Pregnant with Sarah Stroh from Monogamish

EP. 45 Poly and Pregnant with Sarah Stroh from Monogamish

EP. 44 Opening Up After Two Decades Together with M & J (Part 2)

EP. 44 Opening Up After Two Decades Together with M & J (Part 2)

EP. 43 Opening Up After Two Decades Together with M & J (Part 1)

EP. 43 Opening Up After Two Decades Together with M & J (Part 1)

EP. 42 Can Non-Monogamy Make You a Better Parent? with Evolving Love Project

EP. 42 Can Non-Monogamy Make You a Better Parent? with Evolving Love Project

EP. 41 Getting Comfortable with MFM Threesomes with Chamberlin & Michael

EP. 41 Getting Comfortable with MFM Threesomes with Chamberlin & Michael

EP. 40 Metamours Who Are Friends with Aviva, Lorena & JD

EP. 40 Metamours Who Are Friends with Aviva, Lorena & JD

EP. 39 Intimacy and Psychedelics with Sarah Tilley

EP. 39 Intimacy and Psychedelics with Sarah Tilley

EP. 38 Twelve Lessons in my Polycurious Journey

EP. 38 Twelve Lessons in my Polycurious Journey

EP. 37 How to Have a Good Threesome with  All The Feels (Part 2)

EP. 37 How to Have a Good Threesome with All The Feels (Part 2)

EP. 36 Turning Jelousy into Kink with All The Feels (Part 1)

EP. 36 Turning Jelousy into Kink with All The Feels (Part 1)

EP. 35 Opening to Polyamory with Jessica Esfandiary from Open Late

EP. 35 Opening to Polyamory with Jessica Esfandiary from Open Late

EP. 34 Managing Two Partners and Building Community with Jenny & Kris (Part 2)

EP. 34 Managing Two Partners and Building Community with Jenny & Kris (Part 2)

EP. 33 Open From the Get Go with Jenny & Kris (Part 1)

EP. 33 Open From the Get Go with Jenny & Kris (Part 1)

EP. 32 Letting Go of Shame with Philip from Dear Poly

EP. 32 Letting Go of Shame with Philip from Dear Poly

EP. 31 Healing Sexual Trauma with Jess & Zach from Sacred Ships

EP. 31 Healing Sexual Trauma with Jess & Zach from Sacred Ships

EP. 30 Being Solo Poly in a Long Term Relationship with Taylor & Alan

EP. 30 Being Solo Poly in a Long Term Relationship with Taylor & Alan

Monocurious EP. 3 The Power of Non-sexual Intimacy with Tory & Jackson

Monocurious EP. 3 The Power of Non-sexual Intimacy with Tory & Jackson

Monocurious EP. 2 Looking for Partnership in the Dating App Era with Tory & Ava

Monocurious EP. 2 Looking for Partnership in the Dating App Era with Tory & Ava

Monocurious EP. 1 A Floating Island of Monogamy in a Sea of Fluidity with Sue & Jon

Monocurious EP. 1 A Floating Island of Monogamy in a Sea of Fluidity with Sue & Jon

EP. 25 Best Friends Open to Play and An Update on Our Relationships with Mariah & Fer

EP. 25 Best Friends Open to Play and An Update on Our Relationships with Mariah & Fer

EP. 24 Growing From Polyamory with Ari & Jeshua

EP. 24 Growing From Polyamory with Ari & Jeshua

EP. 23 Forming a Triad and Decoupling with Marcela the Hypnoqueen

EP. 23 Forming a Triad and Decoupling with Marcela the Hypnoqueen

EP. 22 Intimacy, Mental Health and Communicating Desires with Valentin from Awake and Sexy

EP. 22 Intimacy, Mental Health and Communicating Desires with Valentin from Awake and Sexy

EP. 21 When your Type of Non-Monogamy is Different from your Partner's

EP. 21 When your Type of Non-Monogamy is Different from your Partner's

EP. 20 Unlearning Monogamy with Carol & David

EP. 20 Unlearning Monogamy with Carol & David

EP. 19 Gaslighting & Manipulation in Non-Monogamy with Rachel Krantz

EP. 19 Gaslighting & Manipulation in Non-Monogamy with Rachel Krantz

EP. 18 Being Solo Polyamorous and Dating a Couple with London

EP. 18 Being Solo Polyamorous and Dating a Couple with London

EP. 17 Flirting as a Team with Jasmine & Felipe

EP. 17 Flirting as a Team with Jasmine & Felipe

EP. 16 Dating as a Newly Queer Person and NRE with Queer Dating Coach Ariella Serur

EP. 16 Dating as a Newly Queer Person and NRE with Queer Dating Coach Ariella Serur

EP. 14 Broken Up But Still Together with Cookie & Jerry

EP. 14 Broken Up But Still Together with Cookie & Jerry

EP. 13 Falling in Love with Your Secondary with Mariah (Season Finale)

EP. 13 Falling in Love with Your Secondary with Mariah (Season Finale)

EP. 12 She is Open, He is Not with Fer & Seth

EP. 12 She is Open, He is Not with Fer & Seth

EP. 11 Overcoming Insecurities with Ruth & Alejandro

EP. 11 Overcoming Insecurities with Ruth & Alejandro

EP. 10  Doubting Polyamory with Mr. K

EP. 10 Doubting Polyamory with Mr. K

EP.9 Being in a Triad and Dealing with Jealousy with Anna & Chetan

EP.9 Being in a Triad and Dealing with Jealousy with Anna & Chetan

EP. 8 Relationship Anarchy, Being a Poly Parent and Alternative Relationship Therapy with Tarynn

EP. 8 Relationship Anarchy, Being a Poly Parent and Alternative Relationship Therapy with Tarynn

EP. 7 Gender Roles in Non-monogamy with Ana & Dustin

EP. 7 Gender Roles in Non-monogamy with Ana & Dustin

EP. 6 Facing Insecurities Head On

EP. 6 Facing Insecurities Head On

EP. 5 Non-monogamous in Different Ways with S & J

EP. 5 Non-monogamous in Different Ways with S & J

EP. 4 Learning Compersion and Navigating Polyamory with Bear & Fifi (Part 2)

EP. 4 Learning Compersion and Navigating Polyamory with Bear & Fifi (Part 2)

EP. 3 Being Queer, Polyamorous and POC with Bear & Fifi (Part 1)

EP. 3 Being Queer, Polyamorous and POC with Bear & Fifi (Part 1)

EP. 2 Finding the Type of Relationship that Works for YOU with Dr.Zhana

EP. 2 Finding the Type of Relationship that Works for YOU with Dr.Zhana

EP. 1 The Stigma of Non-Monogamy with Mariah

EP. 1 The Stigma of Non-Monogamy with Mariah